QuoteBut in the same vein, Latins, in particular Trads, have a very biased, often incorrect, understanding of EOs. Getting passed that and understanding what they actually think/teach is the first step in getting them to see the truth of Catholicism. That's my whole point.
Quote from: Bonaventure on Today at 02:04:49 PMToleration as a last resort is different from something being forbidden.
Quote from: LausTibiChriste on Today at 12:48:31 PMQuote from: Bonaventure on Today at 12:35:34 PMQuote from: AlNg on Today at 12:10:14 PMQuote from: Bonaventure on May 10, 2024, 02:49:27 PM<<... ways to resist and neutralize the capacity of the leadership of the Moscow Patriarchate to... theologically legitimize criminal behavior. ...>>Are you OK with getting involved in a Church which currently legitimizes divorce and remarriage by a policy of easily granting marriage annulments for flimsy reasons?
Considering that the Primus Inter Pares called the Moscow patriarchate a "pseudo-religion legitimizing criminal behavior," I decided against getting involved in that Church.
No more than I am with a church that officially legitimizes divorce. No annulment needed. Abusit non tollit usum.
As I've previously posted, your posts appear to me to be looking for a justification to become Orthodox. As I previously mentioned, be a catechumen for a year and see if that gets you anywhere.
They do not officially legitimize divorce. It is tolerated in some circumstances (VERY rare), by SOME jurisdictions, as a last resort. You have to jump through more hoops to get divorced than to get annulled in the Catholic Church. I would happily bet $20 that at an institutional level the Catholic Church ends more marriages than the Orthodox do percentage wise.
You have to keep in mind, right or wrong, that it comes down to their sacramental theology too. Generally, in Eastern theology, the Church marries the couple, so the Church, in their eyes, has the authority to undo what it has done up, as it were.
I'm not saying it's right.
Which brings me to my next point which I have constantly said
There is no nuance or true introspection/humility, whatever you want to call it when we deal with each other (Catholics & Orthodox)
Catholics: They allow divorce
Orthodox: They allow gay marriage
And on and on it goes. A millennium of antagonistic tropes that, at this point, can only be overcome by God's intervention.
Quote from: Michael Wilson on May 10, 2024, 04:55:28 PMI agree with Fr. R.I agree Michael, 15 minutes is like an absolute minimum, or maybe if the person is ill or something.
I think 15 minutes is a good minimum; and one should look for opportunities to expand that time.
Spiritual reading is also excellent.
From my years on the trad forums, I really think that two things many trads lack: 1. Lack of knowledge of the Catholic faith; which could easily be remedied by reading even a page a day of a traditional Catechism.
2. Lack of prayer life. The responses on the other thread to a poster's inquiry as to advice on how to deepen one's spiritual life, was very consoling to read.
Quote from: Bonaventure on Today at 01:16:14 PMQuote from: LausTibiChriste on Today at 01:02:47 PMQuote from: Michael Wilson on Today at 08:03:11 AML.T.B.
If a person dances around the edge of a cliff long enough, they will eventually fall off.
Advice from a friend.
What's your point?
I would say he was noticing Kasper-like ecumenism in the thread.
QuoteDivorceValid marriages do not "cease to be a reality"; as Our Lord and St. Paul teach explicitly.
Orthodoxy regards the marriage bond as indissoluble, and it condemns the breakdown of marriage as a sin and an evil. The Orthodox Church does permit remarriage after divorce in some cases, as an exception, a necessary concession to human sin. While condemning sin, the Church desires to help the sinners and to allow them another chance, with an act of economy. When a marriage has ceased to be a reality, the Orthodox Church faces the reality with philanthropia (loving kindness).
Second and third marriage
The Orthodox Church teaches that a second union "is tolerated only by condescension to human weakness (1 Corinthians 7:9). It may also be recognized as a second chance, given to a man or a woman, to enter into a real marriage in Christ when a first union was a mistake (for even Church blessing cannot always magically repair a human mistake!)."[3] In the service for a second marriage, some of the joyful ceremonies are omitted and replaced by penitential prayers, although the penitential prayers might be omitted if it is a first marriage for one of the spouses.[4]
The Church can also "allow a third marriage, but formally forbids a fourth."[5]
QuotePurposes of Christian MarriageThe primary purpose of Holy Matrimony is the procreation and education of the children; the secondary purposes are subject to the primary. The above definition is why a valid marriage can be annulled in Orthodoxy and in the N.O.M. Because once there is no longer this "community of love and sanctification" then the primary (Orthodox) purpose of matrimony has ceased and the marriage can be dissolved.
The fundamental purpose of marriage is to attain holiness. Ultimately, the spouses grow together in Christ, to realize their God-likeness [cf., Gen 1:27] and to actualize their salvation. The couple is called to continuously create and recreate a communion of mutual love, trust, personal fulfilment, and self-sacrifice. This is achieved by the couple inviting the active presence of God into their relationship. The Holy Spirit of God leads husband and wife to sanctification and glorification of God through, and with, their relationship.
Also, in the service of matrimony, one can identify numerous other secondary purposes for marriage: mutual assistance, interpersonal faithfulness, procreation and nurturing children, the realization of each spouse's sexuality, etc. In short, the purpose of marriage includes the entirety of human existence and experience. All that each spouse is, and experiences individually and together, may be lifted up to God and may become a means of realizing salvation.
QuoteDivorce
According to Orthodox teaching a marriage can be dissolved only through the "death" of one of the spouses. This death is understood either as physical death or the moral/religious death involved in denying the spiritual significance or moral foundation of the marital communion (e.g., adultery, chronic abuse, apostasy).
While marriage is to be used to realize heaven on earth, the Church understands that it also might be corrupted into an instrument of exploitation, oppression, destruction, even death. Thus, the harsh and disruptive nature of sin reaches even into this most hallowed of human relationships. In this case, when the relationship is not germane to the personal spiritual, emotional, or physical well-being of the spouses, the Church will recognize the civil divorce of the couple.
Always, though, divorce is viewed as "radical surgery" — an invasive and disruptive force, which contradicts the mystical: character of the marital union. For this reason, after a divorce the Church encourages a time of emotional and spiritual therapy: counsel and repentance, which allows a person to work through the grief of a lost relationship.
The main purpose of divorce is to overcome all that which is destructive in the relationship and to allow each spouse to travel the path of sanctification. Remarriage, as mentioned above, is not generally counselled. However, remarriage is allowed as a means of overcoming loneliness, alienation, abandonment, and difficulty in maintaining celibacy. Thus, the Church shows Her deep concern for the person, giving him/her another opportunity to enter into the mystery of love, holiness, and personhood in marital communion.
For the sake of order and internal integrity, though, the Church allows only two subsequent remarriages should a first (and possibly a second) marriage end. Moreover, the second and third marriage service takes on a more penitential character.