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Geremia:
Why does it seem so many young women today are afraid of being mothers?

(Some hate motherhood so much that they kill their own children, but that's an extreme case. A similar problem, but to a letter degree, seems more prevalent.)

TheReturnofLive:
Both men and women are screwed up because of mainstream liberal feminism.

The call of feminism generally is this underlying principle that men and women should feel free to pursue the social roles that they find fulfilling - if a man wants to be more caring with his kids and less of a breadwinner, that's okay; and if a woman wants a career, she should pursue that if she wants.

While arguably flawed, mainstream liberal feminism has interpreted this underlying principle in the most mentally retarded way possible - men need to be more "feminine, emotional, soft, and loving" - and women need to "embrace their sexuality (that is, act as "players"), have a career, and be strong / independent"
And God help you if you think the opposite! That it's okay to have a family where the man is the breadwinner and the mom raises the kids! Such behavior is looked down on by mainstream society today.

Women bought into this because in my experience and with statistical studies, women desire and value social validation and social harmony more than men do. That makes them more generous, loving, and kind people than men typically are, but at the same time that makes them more often than not susceptible to conforming to social trends in a desire to receive social approval.
Women want social validation, so they of course oblige and act more masculine.

The men who buy into feminism tend to be lower quality individuals who, out of a desperate and pitiful attempt to attract a woman, reconstruct their entire identity to fit the feminist narrative that women buy into, hoping that maybe some woman comes along and is impressed by it. Spoilers - doesn't work.

Daniel:
I think it's because they are evil.

coffeeandcigarette:

--- Quote from: Geremia on November 17, 2020, 01:10:49 PM ---Why does it seem so many young women today are afraid of being mothers?

(Some hate motherhood so much that they kill their own children, but that's an extreme case. A similar problem, but to a letter degree, seems more prevalent.)

--- End quote ---

They are not afraid, they are selfish. The selfishness makes them not want to be mothers, exactly the same way modern men do not want to be fathers.

diaduit:

--- Quote from: coffeeandcigarette on November 17, 2020, 10:29:40 PM ---
--- Quote from: Geremia on November 17, 2020, 01:10:49 PM ---Why does it seem so many young women today are afraid of being mothers?

(Some hate motherhood so much that they kill their own children, but that's an extreme case. A similar problem, but to a letter degree, seems more prevalent.)

--- End quote ---

They are not afraid, they are selfish. The selfishness makes them not want to be mothers, exactly the same way modern men do not want to be fathers.

--- End quote ---

Yes, saturated with love of self.  We have the beauty industry bombarding young girls from the age of 10 where they cake on make up and look like obscene mini drag queens.  As they get older and the figure is important, the love of the body becomes obsessive, gym and jogging and all of course while wearing the latest branded gear.  Constant selfies  plus cheap fashion keeps them hooked. 

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