I found the distro that I love. Artix Linux. I'm running it with the Xfrce desktop and OpenRC init system. You can also use it with Runit or System V init.
It also can come with Mate or Cinnamon (Gnome before it was ruined) and KDE.
Basically it is the non-systemd fork of Arch. Packages are done with Pacman and you can use the official repo's or AUR using Yay. Since it is derived from Arch, it has everything you can imagine. However you pick what you want, it comes very basic, which I love. For example, I had to install the archive manager for zip and tar. Didn't come with it, but installed in a few seconds with Pacman.
I'm also really liking Xfrce. Seems to do everything I want with a lot less bloat.
Only real problem I had was installing Libre Office. A library dependency was not available. I used Git and compiled it myself. No problems after that. By the way the non-linear solver in Calc is pretty slick. Already used it on a project.
Anyhow, if you are looking for a non-systemd Linux, take a look at this distro. Insall was fast and easy.