I had assumed you were not but made the comments because upon re-reading my initial brief post I realized I left out much I had intended to say.
As a student my favorite teachers were those whom had command of the classroom, or for an irrelevant subject a teacher who was friendly. When I went into tutoring I had assumed people would care much about results, but I found that many, student and parent alike, just wanted me to be friendly. The many times I went the extra mile (or 10) to extensively try to get a student to handle some aspect of math, it always fell flat. The students never did the extra work, the handcrafted lessons were never enforced by the parents, it was always for waste. Of all my many students, I think only a few (and their parents) cared about results. The reality is most students had zero interest and their parents are only putting the kid in there as a CYA act, so that when junior flops out of physics or math the parents can act blameless "but we paid for private tutoring!"