"date night"

Started by Chestertonian, December 27, 2014, 11:56:37 PM

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Chestertonian

Quote from: verenaerin on January 15, 2015, 11:21:56 AM
When I had #5 we split the kids up. The boys were with a family that we are good friends with, and the girls went to my mother's.

In June we are going to a HSing conference. I already got a babysitter for the 4 and will take the baby. I am excited to go with Mr. T. It will be great.

homeschool conference sounds like a good date night whete is it
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Greg

My wife said, just yesterday evening, "Greg, you never take me anywhere expensive anymore".

I said, "Put your coat on!"

"Why" she smiled, "where are we going?"

"The bloody Petrol Station"
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JubilateDeo

Quote from: OCLittleFlower on December 29, 2014, 11:34:54 PM
I like the idea of a date night in -- have someone else take your son for a while (hopefully to another address!) and order some food in for her. 

I'm not sure, but I think some of the "nicer" NYC places deliver -- I could be completely wrong, but I always hear New Yorkers complaining about how delivery everywhere else sucks.

I moderate an online mom's group for local NJ moms, most of whom are recent NYC transplants, and 90% of the threads are about ordering takeout, specifically about how everything is "crap" compared to the way it's done in NYC.  I always say things like, "Have you ever tried this thing called 'cooking?'  It's this novel approach to dinner where you start with ingredients and heat them in all these different combinations!"

kayla_veronica

I think a lot of the times (at least for me), it doesn't really matter what you do, as long as you do something that makes her feel special and allows you some fun alone time to break up the routine.
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most incomprehensible and ineffable Name of God
be forever praised, blessed, loved, adored
and glorified in Heaven, on earth,
and under the earth,
by all the creatures of God,
and by the Sacred Heart of Our Lord Jesus Christ,
in the Most Holy Sacrament of the Altar.
Amen.

OCLittleFlower

Quote from: JubilateDeo on March 30, 2017, 07:13:09 AM
Quote from: OCLittleFlower on December 29, 2014, 11:34:54 PM
I like the idea of a date night in -- have someone else take your son for a while (hopefully to another address!) and order some food in for her. 

I'm not sure, but I think some of the "nicer" NYC places deliver -- I could be completely wrong, but I always hear New Yorkers complaining about how delivery everywhere else sucks.

I moderate an online mom's group for local NJ moms, most of whom are recent NYC transplants, and 90% of the threads are about ordering takeout, specifically about how everything is "crap" compared to the way it's done in NYC.  I always say things like, "Have you ever tried this thing called 'cooking?'  It's this novel approach to dinner where you start with ingredients and heat them in all these different combinations!"

Sometimes it's nice not to have to. *shrug*  Especially for a date night -- it's not a date if I have to cook or clean it up, in my mind.  Personally, I'd rather go out than get takeout (I have bad take-out luck and my order is ALWAYS wrong) but for Ches and his wife it might be a nice way to do date night at home.

I was sadly disappointed when I had an overnight layover near JFK -- all the delivery had ended before I got to the hotel. I was hoping for real New York pizza.  >:(
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piabee

Quote from: OCLittleFlower on March 30, 2017, 04:22:12 PM
I was hoping for real New York pizza.  >:(

It's overrated.

(Good thing Someone1776 doesn't post anymore.) :hide:

OCLittleFlower

Quote from: piabee on April 01, 2017, 12:30:44 AM
Quote from: OCLittleFlower on March 30, 2017, 04:22:12 PM
I was hoping for real New York pizza.  >:(

It's overrated.

(Good thing Someone1776 doesn't post anymore.) :hide:

LOL!

I hope to find out for myself one day...
-- currently writing a Trad romance entitled Flirting with Sedevacantism --

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Bonaventure

I didn't think it was.
"If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me."

MilesChristi

Quote from: piabee on April 01, 2017, 12:30:44 AM
Quote from: OCLittleFlower on March 30, 2017, 04:22:12 PM
I was hoping for real New York pizza.  >:(

It's overrated.

(Good thing Someone1776 doesn't post anymore.) :hide:

Better than what youse guys got
The world is charged with the grandeur of God.
    It will flame out, like shining from shook foil;
    It gathers to a greatness, like the ooze of oil
Crushed. Why do men then now not reck his rod?
Generations have trod, have trod, have trod;
    And all is seared with trade; bleared, smeared with toil;
    And wears man's smudge and shares man's smell: the soil
Is bare now, nor can foot feel, being shod.

And for all this, nature is never spent;
    There lives the dearest freshness deep down things;
And though the last lights off the black West went
    Oh, morning, at the brown brink eastward, springs —
Because the Holy Ghost over the bent
    World broods with warm breast and with ah! bright wings.

OCLittleFlower

Quote from: MilesChristi on April 01, 2017, 06:31:37 PM
Quote from: piabee on April 01, 2017, 12:30:44 AM
Quote from: OCLittleFlower on March 30, 2017, 04:22:12 PM
I was hoping for real New York pizza.  >:(

It's overrated.

(Good thing Someone1776 doesn't post anymore.) :hide:

Better than what youse guys got

"Thanked" your post for an excellent use of slang.
-- currently writing a Trad romance entitled Flirting with Sedevacantism --

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Chestertonian

When I was a kid I wasn't allowed to eat pizza.  I think I can count the number of times I've had pizza on one hand.  First had kosher pizza which was "meh" had the good stuff once or twice, had pizza in DC once.  At that point I was saving all my carbs for beer  :cheeseheadbeer:
"I am not much of a Crusader, that is for sure, but at least I am not a Mohamedist!"

Kaesekopf

Quote from: piabee on April 01, 2017, 12:30:44 AM
Quote from: OCLittleFlower on March 30, 2017, 04:22:12 PM
I was hoping for real New York pizza.  >:(

It's overrated.

(Good thing Someone1776 doesn't post anymore.) :hide:

One of the few things Chicago does well.
Wie dein Sonntag, so dein Sterbetag.

I am not altogether on anybody's side, because nobody is altogether on my side.  ~Treebeard, LOTR

Jesus son of David, have mercy on me.

OCLittleFlower

Quote from: Kaesekopf on April 06, 2017, 12:35:45 PM
Quote from: piabee on April 01, 2017, 12:30:44 AM
Quote from: OCLittleFlower on March 30, 2017, 04:22:12 PM
I was hoping for real New York pizza.  >:(

It's overrated.

(Good thing Someone1776 doesn't post anymore.) :hide:

One of the few things Chicago does well.

Chicago pizza rocks.  But I do feel that I can't pick favorites until I try both.  ;)
-- currently writing a Trad romance entitled Flirting with Sedevacantism --

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MilesChristi

Quote from: Kaesekopf on April 06, 2017, 12:35:45 PM
Quote from: piabee on April 01, 2017, 12:30:44 AM
Quote from: OCLittleFlower on March 30, 2017, 04:22:12 PM
I was hoping for real New York pizza.  >:(

It's overrated.

(Good thing Someone1776 doesn't post anymore.) :hide:

One of the few things Chicago does well.

YOU MONSTER
The world is charged with the grandeur of God.
    It will flame out, like shining from shook foil;
    It gathers to a greatness, like the ooze of oil
Crushed. Why do men then now not reck his rod?
Generations have trod, have trod, have trod;
    And all is seared with trade; bleared, smeared with toil;
    And wears man's smudge and shares man's smell: the soil
Is bare now, nor can foot feel, being shod.

And for all this, nature is never spent;
    There lives the dearest freshness deep down things;
And though the last lights off the black West went
    Oh, morning, at the brown brink eastward, springs —
Because the Holy Ghost over the bent
    World broods with warm breast and with ah! bright wings.

Perpetua

I'm happy to stay home watching a movie together. I don't feel comfortable leaving our first 10mo baby with anyone yet. I've been away from her for maybe three times and I've felt terrible and started crying. But my husband wants to go out on a date, so at some point I need to just let go of the worries. I'd mainly do it for his sake though, and not so much for my own.

At what age did you start leaving your children with babysitters? Do you leave them overnight with the babysitter, or does the babysitter stay at your home until you come back? What time do you come back at night after the date?